Do dating sites work for men

So saying what seems like a simple three words can actually like a huge risk, promise or commitment to a guy.

It can feel like a risk since guys generally do not deal well with rejection, especially rejection in a moment of vulnerability.

Has my dad’s attitude changed- of course not- in fact i doubt he even recognises a connection.

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In short, guys love through action and not through words.

Most men look at what they say as a sort of promise or commitment, even if it’s an emotionally based discussion.

Dear Geoff, Glad to hear you found someone special, and even happier that you spoke up.

Most of the people that write about online dating write about what’s wrong with it. I mean, that’s what news is – emphasize the bad, misery loves company, etc.

I was curious as to what your real opinion is of online dating.

I did meet my girlfriend online, but after a year of painful struggle, meaning hardly any dates despite being educated, employed, and reasonably attractive.And I can personally admit that love can make me feel vulnerable and can bring up fears and emotions in me that are more than I’m ready to handle at a given moment.As a guy who likes to feel in control of his own life, emotions, and destiny, this can be a problem.Friends of both genders tell that their experiences have been hard in different ways.My guy friends (also educated, attractive) complain that they get no responses and female acquaintences tell me that they get so many emails, etc, that they don’t know where to start-and often do nothing.If you choose to wait for lightning to strike until you go on another date with the “right” guy, you might be waiting a long, long time. Listen, you might think I’m nuts to keep on preaching positivity. All I know is that it’s freakin’ HARD to meet someone.

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